Monday, June 25, 2012

We Need Each Other, Don't Forget That

First of all, Happy Anniversary to my boy! Yesterday was our 4 year anniversary. We had a wonderful time at the zoo, swimming and I watched him play softball. (Picture of us from the zoo!) xoxo! Now onto my thoughts of the day...

I think as people, human beings, we need each other. Sometimes perhaps just for a short time. Once the time is over, when we no longer need each other, something forces you to split ways.

I always wonder about relationships. As a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, sometimes I wonder why people come in and out of our lives, sometimes suddenly in either direction or for what seems no reason at all.

Perhaps sometimes, we need that friendly face to help us get through an especially tough class. When the class is over, we lose touch because we don't really need each other again after all. Other times, friendships grow and develop and you find you just understand one another so well in that time of your life. Sometimes those friendships stay for decades and other times, you fight or the person suddenly leaves you high and dry and left you wondering why. That person didn't need you anymore or you didn't need them. That shouldn't leave you feeling upset or unfulfilled. Try to look back and remember the good times you had with that person or how you helped each other in that time of your lives.

So cherish the relationships in your life RIGHT NOW. Try not to dwell in your past relationships or worry about future ones. Enjoy the people in your life and treat them well. There is a reason they are there. It might be to teach you something, you might be there to help them, or you might simply be people who just "get" each other and enjoy fun times. Whatever the reason is, they are there for a reason.


  1. Thanks for the encouragement. Like you said, I feel like I'm always stuck worried about past relationships or dreaming about future ones. Gotta live for the moment more often. Congrats on your anniversary!

  2. Happy anniversary! Great advice too btw your so right :)

  3. Thanks guys! Glad you enjoyed the post. :)


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