tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6033971618079152914.post5243013394291640266..comments2023-12-16T14:21:12.836-05:00Comments on Lauren's Thoughts: Love or Obsession?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14407437564246340467noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6033971618079152914.post-27904579318086827262009-04-11T19:50:00.000-04:002009-04-11T19:50:00.000-04:00Thanks for the comments guys! I definitely agree w...Thanks for the comments guys! I definitely agree with what you two said.<BR/><BR/>And... you need to meet Kevin Laura!!!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14407437564246340467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6033971618079152914.post-55516056063630322952009-04-11T18:56:00.000-04:002009-04-11T18:56:00.000-04:00You know I agree totally! I have had bad experienc...You know I agree totally! I have had bad experiences with that too. Part of me still feels like it depends on the phase in their relationship. I think in the beginning that is kind of natural to do the whole "obsessed" with each other thing, and then hopefully once the relationship goes on it gets better and they get out of it. At least in my experience that is what I have found. If the relationship progresses and they are still like that.. then I start to worry. Just stick with it and hopefully these people will realize what is going on. <BR/><BR/>Like me, you have seen how that is from the "third wheel" side and work hard to prevent it. If it makes you feel better, you are totally not like that. I have yet to even meet your boyfriend and we have been hanging out for awhile! Because we have been on that side of it, we know what it feels like and I strive to be like you are and have my own life apart from my boyfriend (when I get one!)Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01822409671344705249noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6033971618079152914.post-65105198186589769072009-04-10T21:35:00.000-04:002009-04-10T21:35:00.000-04:00I definately agree with you on this one. I can fir...I definately agree with you on this one. I can first hand tell you that a realtionship based on obsession vs. love is not really a relationship at all. It now disturbs me when I see couples in an obsession relationship, or people in just an obsession friendship... The constant texting from the time they wake up, till the moment they go to bed, just seems over the top tp me. I know that Toby and I have a love-love relationship. On a normal day we each go to class, do our own things, and at the end of the day we make sure one another was have a good day. We don't see eachother at all during the week, and we are both fine with that cause we both need our time to be our own independent selves. Weekend are usually our time to be together, but even then it varies... I guess for now you just have to stick in there and let people figure this out, and if they do not realize what a great friend they are missing out on... Then that is a great loss to them, cause YOU are an amazing friend so don't forget that! ! !Tiffanynoreply@blogger.com